Frequently Asked Questions
Catholic cemeteries have a long tradition of dedicated service to
the Catholic community including non-Catholics spouses, children,
parents and other relatives. Christians with a connection to the
Catholic Community may also be buried in the Catholic Cemeteries.
For more information, or if you have additional questions, we invite
you to speak with one of our Family Service Advisors.
It is only natural that those who share the same faith in life will wish
to carry on that sense of community in death. When it comes to the
issue of death, the sensibilities and needs of Catholics are unique and
call for certain practices in the handling and care of the remains of the
deceased.
Therefore, in the blessed grounds of a Catholic cemetery there are
safeguards–mandated by the Church’s Canon Law–which guarantee
permanence, reverence and respect for the remains of the deceased.
Personal preference and/or family tradition influence choices in this
regard. Above ground entombment in a crypt building appeals to
many people, including those who aren’t comfortable with traditional
below ground burial. Indoor mausoleum crypts are conducive to
visitation in inclement weather.
Yes. By making arrangements in advance, Catholic families can avoid
confusion at the time of bereavement and assure themselves of burial
and arrangements in the location they desire, and at a price they wish
to pay. You will find our Family Service Advisors knowledgeable and
sensitive to your needs.
It has been our experience that generally, a husband and wife buy
space for themselves. Many families decide to purchase adjoining
plots to form a family group. Family plots are also available and can
accommodate larger headstones. Crypts for full size caskets and
niches for cremated remains may be purchased individually or in
family groups. “Private Estates”, distinctively designed personal, private
family mausoleums, may also be purchased.
There are a variety of payment options and terms designed to give
you the flexibility to remain within your personal budget. Cash, check,
MasterCard and Visa are honored for your convenience. Terms may
be arranged with a down payment made at the time of a pre-need
purchase. At the time of death, the burial arrangements are to be paid
in full.
There are a variety of memorialization options available. From flat
grave markers to upright monuments and statuary, families can design
meaningful and lasting tributes to loved ones. Monuments conform
to the regulations that govern different areas of the cemetery.
Cremation is the reduction of the body of a deceased person to
recoverable bone fragments through a process that combines intense
heat and evaporation. After cooling, the fragments are pulverized.
These fragments usually weigh 4 to 10 pounds.
What are commonly called ashes are not ash, but bone fragments.
The proper terminology of the fragments is “cremated remains of the
body.”
No, it is not required but it may be helpful to discuss your questions
and decisions with your priest or Parish counselor.
Yes, in 1963, the Catholic Church eliminated its prohibition against cremation. Although cremation represents a means of disposition preferred by many, it is not the “final disposition”–burial is. Human cremated remains are still the body of the deceased–just in a different form. Thus, cremated remains should be treated with the same respect as the “full” body is treated prior to cremation. Cremated remains are to receive appropriate disposition in the form of traditional in-ground burial or entombment in an above ground columbarium niche, crypt or mausoleum at a private or Catholic cemetery.
Honoring and respecting the deceased by keeping their remains safe, undisturbed, and memorialized is a time honored tradition. It is important to everyone to be remembered. It is also important for family members and future generations to visit these graves–even if only once. We can tell that from the large numbers of people who visit the cemetery each year doing their family genealogy!
Honoring and respecting the deceased by keeping their remains safe, undisturbed, and memorialized is a time honored tradition. It is important to everyone to be remembered. It is also important for family members and future generations to visit these graves–even if only once. We can tell that from the large numbers of people who visit the cemetery each year doing their family genealogy!
No, the document kept on file at the cemetery is called a “permit for
disposition.” It is issued by the Health Department Registrar in the
county in which the deceased expired.
Yes. For more information, or if you have additional questions, please
contact your Parish priest.
Yes. It is recognized that those who die from the act of suicide deserve
understanding and compassion. The deceased may have been
suffering from a serious psychological instability or overwhelming
fear and confusion. Therefore, the church offers funeral and burial
rites for those who may have died as a result of suicide. The American
edition of the Catholic ritual includes prayers for this specific situation.
These prayers evoke forgiveness for the departed and consolation to
their family.